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101 Most Romantic Things to Do and Say! (51-101)
« on: June 10, 2009, 11:13:16 PM »
101 Most Romantic Things to Do and Say! (con't)

51. Take a midnight stroll somewhere near a place with a
clock tower.  Then kiss through all 12 strokes at midnight.
(This also works at home if you have a clock that strikes the

52.  If she is wearing a dress with lots of buttons, or
using the buttons on his shirt (don't forget the buttons on his
cuffs!) when you undress them, one button at a time, exchange a
kiss between every button.

53.  Take the afternoon off, go out in the woods or a field
and pick Wild flowers together.

54.  I have frequently just left one flower on a bed pillow
or occasional left a trail of flowers leading to the bed!

55.  Go to your nearest lover's lane and make love in the
car! Trust me, it NEVER gets old!

56.  Compliment each other.  We all need to hear that we are
appreciated and loved.  There isn't a man or woman alive
that doesn't like to hear 'Wow, you look fantastic!'

57.  Tell them you love them with flowers, even if they're
from the Supermarket.

58.  Pick up your lover's favorite food and take it to them.
It could be licorice, or whatever.

59.  Send them a postcard whenever you're out of town.  And
say 'I Love you' on it.
60.  The most romantic thing?  When you're with them, be
really with them, no distractions.

61. Share your toys.

62. Take each other on a date at least once a week.

63.   Have adventures!  Go and do and see and try daring
things! Often!

64.  Conserve water, shower together.

65.  Kiss each other often, especially when you greet or
part from each other, and hold every kiss for at least 10

66.  An unexpected phone call in the middle of the day!  And
if you get their voice mail, leave an extra sexy or special

67.  Cook a romantic dinner and have a friend come over to
wait on the two of you.

68.  Sending love notes, cards, letters and cute or funny
trinkets. This is especially fun if you can have them delivered to
their office, or while they are traveling, or at any special time
that will make them smile and think good thoughts!

69. A hot oil massage for your loved one when they come home
from work!  Play some soothing music and make sure you do
this by candlelight.

70.  Trace 'I love you' on your lover's back with your index

71. Painting hearts on each others' necks or other body
parts with chocolate or honey or whipped cream, and licking
it off!

72.  Drive out to the country, with your favorite music -
with no destination in mind - just a drive, a picnic, or finding
a nice place to eat.  As a passenger (you can switch going and
coming) nothing is so stress free as to lie back in the
passenger's seat and watch the clouds and the sun go by,
watch the sunset and watch the moon come out!  This is great way
to get together quietly, let the stresses vanish, and the
beauty of nature fill you.

73.  Tickets to a small town theatre production.  Not
expensive tickets - but some of the best performances
 available - with a reasonable dinner before the theatre in
the small town restaurant. A wonderful get away.

74. We all like surprises - Nothing is better than
kidnapping your spouse - just make them aware to be
available for a certain weekend and have a place booked
at a hotel. Take bubble bath, massage lotion, a different
night gown than you 'normally' wear, and treat your spouse
like a 'king' or 'queen'.  You do all the planning so they
can relax and enjoy. Have a picnic in your hotel room, with
music - and this weekend away will revitalize your partnership.

75.  Second most romantic thing a man can say to a woman:
'Honey, I'll do the dishes tonight.'  MOST romantic thing:
'From now on, dinner dishes are MY responsibility!'

76.  My most romantic tip:  pay a positive compliment that
comes from your heart.   A compliment speaks volumes and leaves
a wonderful sound in the recipients ears that brings a smile
to the lips and a warm glow to the soul.

77.  Hot Air Balloon Ride.

78. Returning to the site of your First Date.

79.  Find an article entitled 'What Women Really Want
From Men,' or 'What Men Really Want From Women' --
in Cosmo, Glamour, even Reader's Digest (This article
appears in one form or another nearly every month,
in some magazine.) Circle parts of the article you agree
with; write comments in the margins.  Mail it to your

80. Drive along the coast in a convertible.  Have a picnic
on the beach or enjoy the sunset.

81.  Love notes left on the windshield, taped to the
bathroom mirror, or delivered in the office mail.  We have
hidden notes for each other in brief cases, coat pockets,
on voice mails and had them included in welcome packets
when one of us is traveling and staying in a hotel.  It's
become a wonderful 'competition'!
83.  Having a date to meet and walk and talk in a beautiful
setting.  We often visit an art gallery, or the beautiful
flower gardens and arboretums in various cities when we travel.

84.  Leave a surprise handwritten note (e.g., on the
computer or in a daytimer) describing what you most love
about her/him.

85.  Come home early and make her/his favorite meal.

86.  Bring coffee to her/him in bed as an affectionate wake-
up gesture.

87.  Tell him/her you are so glad you are both together as
your goodnight 'kiss'.  Take a moment, look them in the eyes and
hold hands, and let them know you really mean it!

88.  Call at work and say you were thinking about how
wonderful he/she is.

89.  Agree to meet at a party, club or public place and each
of you role-play someone other than yourselves.  'Meet' for the
first time and flirt!  Make up an outrageous story - be a
movie producer, a spy, politician or wealthy jet-setter!  We
almost always succeed in seducing each other this way!

90.  Test drive a Porsche!

91.  Tell the other that there is a surprise for her/him.
Then drop hints about what the surprise is. Some of these hints
may be false or true. 'Torment' the person for a few days.
If the surprise is a trip/place, blindfold the person during the

92.  Buy a man's silk pajama set - hubby wears the bottom
and I wear the top.

93.  He brings me wildflower bouquets....and what pulls my
heartstrings even more, he plucks wildflowers and will hook
them in the collars of our dogs so that they have their own

94.  In a restaurant, we sit on the same side in a booth.

95.  While I was out one evening, my husband turned down our
bed, propped a beautiful card on the fluffed up pillows,
scattered rose petals on the sheets and floor leading to a warm bath
filled with floating candles.  When I returned home and walked into
our bedroom, I was so touched I couldn't help but cry.

96.  Send the children out for the evening and plan a little
stargazing picnic in the backyard (use sleeping blankets if
it's chilly) with you for dessert.  Works every time.

97.  Make the time to give a massage with your partners
choice of oils or powder. Massage all of the body, especially
include the face, head, feet etc.  Take as much time as is needed.
Be the phone is off the hook and that you will not be disturbed.

98.  Tell the children (in front of me) what a good parent I am.

99.  Hold my hand when we walk down the street.

100.  Go skinny dipping:  In the ocean, in a pond or lake,
in your pool, in the neighbor's pool!

101.  And finally, let's remember to be 'inclusive' in our
loving and affection - romance shouldn't be just for lovers!
We all need to know we are loved, respected and cared about.
Leave little unexpected tokens of love for EVERYONE!
Give joy to old people (they especially need hugs and to feel
listened to). Give your time and affection to children, single
people, friends, and even strangers.  We all need love, hugs,
affection and romance! (Even our pets respond to a bit of
fuss and attention!) We all need it, and those of us who
have 'no attachments' or anyone 'special' in their lives
perhaps need it more than most.


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